QUESTION: What is the lingam?

ANSWER: It is the Penis (In Sanskrit)!!!
Now unlike western society where the Penis is shunned and confined to bedrooms, back allies and bath houses, eastern society tends to regard the Penis as a "Divining Rod" that channels both positive and creative energy (along with limitless unyielding pleasure).

ARGUMENT: In western male dominated society men need to learn to relinquish their control and to fully experience relaxation and a total surrender to pleasure.

STATED FACT: Societal sexual conditioning has put man in a goal-oriented performance mode. The goal being a quick release of cum instead of the pleasurefull journey leading to that eventual "release". Sort of: "Wham Bam Later Sam".

SOLUTION: Tantric homage to the lingam tries to bypass that societal sexual conditioning by allowing man to experience his softer, more receptive side and thereby experience a new level of pleasure from a non-traditional perspective.

The overall goal of giving the receiver's lingam homage and reverence is to create a space in which the receiver can relax, and experience expanded pleasure from his lingam. In reciprocity the giver can also experience the joy of witnessing the receiver surrendering to his softer, gentler side.

Remember, orgasm is not the overall goal of the session although it can be viewed as a pleasant and welcome side effect. The goal is to allow the receiver to surrender to a form of pleasure he may not be used to. This is done through the application of specialized techniques to the lingam, testicles, and perineum (just to name a few) coupled with finely choreographed breathing exercises.
These exercises when performed correctly allow both receiver and giver to relax completely and enter into all phases of the tantric energy exchange with minimal anxiety.
© Dax Michaels